The next time your child throws a temper tantrum, try giving him or her a hug instead of a lecture. You might be surprised at how effective a hug can be in stopping a child in the midst of a tantrum. But what about the misbehavior? Hugs can diffuse a child’s hurt or anger; making it more conductive for him or her to listen to what you have to say and to be more willing and able to learn. It can lead to a larger discussion during which a child had the opportunity to ask questions. Children do better when they feel better.
Joan Burge