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More Tips on Balancing the Working Mom

Posted by: Joan Burge on 2/18/2009

If you are a working mom, it’s time to take a look at how you balance work and family. Here are a few thoughts from several experts.

  • Women who integrate work and child care responsibilities become primarily concerned with their competency as both a parent and employee (Marsha Carolan)
  • The balancing act of a working mother changes with the age of her child. Working mothers need to have long-range vision.
  • Support is key to successfully integrating work and family responsibilities.
  • If you don’t spend a little time taking care of yourself, you won't be able to take care of your children.
  • Rethink what productivity is and what commitment to work really means. If commitment means an employer continues to expect 50 to 60 hours of work a week, that is not necessarily a family-friendly environment. (Barbara Ames)
  • Child care quality, costs, and time flexibility are among the most prominent concerns for working parents. (Ellen Ernst Kossek)
  • Shared responsibilities in a two-parent home is important.
  • You can't have equity in the workplace until you have equity in the home.
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4 Comments

    • Feb 23 2009, 3:30 PM Kelly Olsakovsky
    • I think companies are going to have to re-evaluate the way they view what it means to be a good worker in a changing environment. In order to keep good employees, it may be necessary to open dialogue about flexible work times, telecommuting, and other alternative scheduling methods. It's particularly important to working mothers, who may have family needs that just have to come during the work day. The idea of balance and equity needs to come from both sides of the equation to really move forward in a positive way, and meet the needs of both the employer and employee.

    • Feb 23 2009, 4:30 PM Diane Holt
    • Keeping a set date for "family meetings" keeps your family on the same page. If your family understands that you're working against a deadline at the office, you're sure to get more cooperation and help at home, just like the way we cut our kids a little slack on household chores during final exam week. We meet for 10 minutes or so after Saturday or Sunday dinner, where everyone in the family gets their uninterupted turn to review the past week or plans for the coming week. My teenage sons LOVE the chance to talk without being interupted, with eyes on them!

    • Feb 23 2009, 4:34 PM Jasmine Freeman
    • Excellent input Kelly! I completely agree and I see many wonderful companies out there that really are making the effort to adapt. Working Mother magazine does an excellent job at spotlighting these companies and the great benefits they offer their employees.<br><br>I also love your idea, Diane, on family meetings each weekend. Making it a part of Sunday after dinner is perfect for my family! I am going to give it a try. I know my teenage son always seems hesitant to talk to us about his day at first but once he sees that he does have our attention, he really opens up. Thank you for sharing.

    • Feb 27 2009, 9:04 PM wendy hull
    • I love the 10 minute idea - I am going to take this up with my very moody ten year old and plenty to say 4 year year old.!!<br><br>Top tip from me. <br>When you get the school news letter. Add activities your child is doing on certian days to your reminder in your phone. Set it for ten mins before your due home and make it the first question you ask your kids. You become the star mother oh and my husbands thinks I am the most switched on wife!!!<br>

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